Information page on Catherine M. Wheatley
So many have offered us support, sympathy, and
prayers. I'd like to start this page by expressing the gratitude
my family and I feel. Your prayers are a source of comfort and
strength. Whatever the outcome, we know the Lord is with us.
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Mom passed away at 10:30 a.m., Sunday October 26th. Her memorial service was Wednesday, October 29th. |
10:30 pm 10/21/2008 Kellly is taking mom home tomorrow. Hospice will call her and
tell he when they can meet her at their house to set up the
equipment. I suppose it might take another day before mom gets
home, but it should be tomorrow or the day after. |
3:10 pm 10/21/2008 Mom is truly excited about going on. In many ways, she has
been since my father died 28 years ago. |
Update: 7:45 pm 10/20/2008 The doctor had decided to treat mom's infections with large
doses of antibiotic. Once they get squared away with the
nursing home, and are sure that they have the medicine there and
approved, they'll move her back there. We'll just have to wait
and see over the next few days whether or not she improves. |
Update: 12:30 pm 10/20/2008 Betty just called me. She's on her way back to the hospital. Apparently, the urinary infection has backed up through her kidneys into her blood. she is now septicemic. In her weakened condition, this is extremely bad news. I don't have a prognosis from the doctor. I'll post it when I get it. |
Update: 8:30 am 10/20/2008 Mom was back in the Hospital as of Friday. They took her to St Vincent North in Sherwood for some tests. She's got a bad urinary infection and they're giving her antibiotics. I ran up for the day Sunday. There was only one brief moment when I think she knew I was there. I'm afraid we're closing in on the end of this fight. She was beating the cancer until that blood clot in her lung derailed her treatment. Now, she is just too weak. The cancer is probably coming back, she's got rashes, and infections, and her confusion is chronic. She also has Chronic Obstructive Pulmonary Disorder. (COPD) We're not sure if it's from the clot, the cancer, or something else. They talked about releasing her back the the nursing home
today. Kelly is reviewing their options to see what she wants to
do. If everybody has given up and are just watching the clock, she
wants to bring her home. I support her in that. My concern is that
Kelly is taking on too much, and will hurt her own health. |
Update: 10:15 am 10/11/2008 They moved mom to Cabot Nursing and Rehab care in Cabot.200 North Port Dr. Cabot, AR 72023. (501) 843-6181 Her blood was way to thin when she was in the hospital. I'm not sure what the numbers mean, but she was a 7 something, and they don't want her about 2.8. The last report I had yesterday, she was back down to 3.8. I'm hoping that the thin blood may have had something to do with her weakend and confused state. I waiting to see how she does when they get her blood back to where it should be. I tried to call her this morning, but she doesn't have her cell phone with her. I tried to call the the Rehab center, but didn't get an answer on the number listed on the website. I assume it must be an office number that no one was manning on Saturday morning. I'll just have to call her this afternoon when I can reach her on one of the girl's phone. |
Update: 11:15 am 10/9/2008 I ran up there last night to visit her in the hospital for a few hours. She looked fairly well list night, but she is very weak and confused. She was beating the cancer, but then developed a series of blood clots in her lung that caused her to lose strength and cognition. They are treating her with steroids and blood thinners to try and dissolve the clots. She is too weak now to endure the chemo and radiation. Unless she has an almost miraculous rebound, she won't be able to get back on that regimen. Our concern is that left untreated, the cancer will quickly re surge. The oncologists said the situation is not hopeless, but that the odds are not in our favor. We only talk to mom about her getting better. We don't want to set an "end date," or put any thoughts of inevitability in her head. We're very careful about what we say in front of her. This is why we haven't said much to anyone else. We don't want someone to slip and say something unfortunate in front of her. If anybody goes to see her, we ask that they don't talk as thought she is terminal. She knows she is sick, but we want her to focus on the possibility of getting better. When the time comes to get ready, she will know better than any of us. For now, she still wants to fight it, and we want to give her every chance we can. |
Update: 10:15 pm 10/8/2008 Today, mom showed improvement. Dr. Mendelson told her the she couldn't go home until she ate well and was able to get out of bed. She started eating and going to the bathroom on her own. She's still weak, but getting better and showing some spirit. If thing continue the way the are. she should be going home Wednesday(Oct. 8th,) or Thursday.(Oct 9th.) The girls say that she is more alert in the mornings. As the day goes on and she gets tired, she starts showing more signs of confusion. The doctors won't make a prognosis on her mental state, but Betty and Kelly both seem to think that when she gets more strength back, she may regain some of her mental agility. |
Update: 4:30 pm 10/2/2008 It's been too long since I've updated this. It's been harder than I expected. Not technically, but just making myself sit down and do it. My apologies to those who wished to use this site to keep up. I'll try to do better.
Good News came bundled with not so good news. Since my last update, mom has had a double mastectomy. A radical on one side, and a modified radical on the other. She did well with the surgery. She took her first pain medication almost seven hours after the surgery. Then it was because they removed a tube. She was home the next day doing relatively well. The thing that continued to concern us was that she seemed confused. Almost suffering a mild form of intermittent dementia. We assumed that this had something to do with the cancer in her brain. They tried several things, but nothing seemed to work. Today Kelly took her back and they discovered a blood clot in her lung. (The not so good news.) The scans of her head and chest however looked good. They now think that the blood clot occasionally restricts blood flow to her brain causing the states of confusion. She's in the hospital for the next 3 or 4 days as they try to clear the clot with medicaton. |
Update: 3:11 pm 7/29/2008 Mom is not doing well. What they first thought were lesions in
her brain are now tumors. I don't know if they always were
tumors, or if the lesions became tumors. They are talking about
radiation. Also, she now has cancer in her bones. |
Update: 6:12 pm 1/24/2008 Mom saw Mendelson today. The tumor has responded well. It's
about ¼ the size it was. |
Update: 9:15 pm 1/3/2008 Mom saw the surgeon today. We have a little more info on her
condition. Betty was there and will send me a more detailed
report that I'll post. For now, here is what I understand the
situation to be. |
Update: 12:30 pm 12/30/2007 I talked with Mom this morning. She sounds good and says she's
feeling good. No bad nausea so far, but she does get a little
tired. |
Update: 11:00 am 12/28/2007 She does have an aggressive form of breast cancer. It's
metastasized into her lungs, liver, and bones. It is NOT in her
brain as I first thought. |